I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but buyers aren’t waiting around for you to pitch anymore

They’ve done their own research and already formed an opinion of you, your product, your brand, before you’ve even said a word

Why?

Because AI has rewritten the rules

Buyers are now using AI to search, summarise, compare, and make sense of what used to take them hours

It’s like ChatGPT, Claude, Perplexity; they’re now your buyer's first meeting

Not you

So, before you've booked that Zoom or sent that connect request, the buyer has already read about you

They've seen your LinkedIn

They’ve crunched your reviews

They’ve read your blog (or noticed the absence of one)

They’ve checked out your CEO’s last five posts and even asked ChatGPT to “summarise your company’s value proposition”

In short: they've already created your brand story in their heads

And here’s the thing, if you don’t give them the story, they'll make one up

That’s why in this AI-first world, being “authentic” isn’t a nice-to-have

It’s survival

You need to go beyond polished messaging and automation

What you need is a hyper-human story

So what do I mean by hyper-human?

I mean stories that only you, the person, can tell

Stories that come from lived experience

From empathy

From actually listening to your customers

From being brave enough to show your personality and your point of view, not the corporate fluff approved by a marketing committee

Buyers crave what AI can’t do: nuance, emotion, vulnerability, humour, character

That messy, unpredictable stuff that makes us real

That’s where trust is built

That’s where decisions are made

So if you're still clinging to generic messaging, templated emails, or product-first content, you’re invisible

AI will summarise you into irrelevance

Here’s what to do instead:

Be known before you're needed. Create content that shares insight, not just information

Add value before there’s a transaction on the table

Speak human. Use plain language. Be conversational. Be you

Show up consistently. One great post won’t fix it. Social selling isn’t a campaign, it’s a commitment

Tell stories, not stats. Stats are forgettable. Stories are sticky

Let your buyers be the heroes. Make your content about them, their problems, their ambitions, their outcomes

Have you thought about using social media to drive business growth?

How do you and your sales team compare with best practice, when it comes to using social media to drive revenue?

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What are our customers achieving by using our social selling methodology?

A measured average across our customers

For an AE, we can shorten sales cycles by 30%

And the average SDR will get 1 x ICP meeting a day

Which should increase your revenue by 20%

You can get these results by using our social selling methodology, that is certified by Institute of Sales Professionals (ISP)

"social selling techniques to influence buyers and changemakers - 2nd edition".

In this brand new edition, I have updated all the text, I have also got 15 practitioners, so people who are doing this already to explain how they are get (practical) business benefit. From the CEO that has been running a digital business for over 18 months to sales leaders and sales people who use social selling every day to drive revenue growth. 

Articles on how these business have and are implementing digital, from Mercer, Telstra Purple, Ring Central, Cyberhawk, Namos, Ericsson, DLA Ignite and more.

What does Mark Schaefer, Marketing guru think of the book "social selling - techniques to influence buyers and changemakers - 2nd edition"? watch the video here

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